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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My traditional Asian upbringing is coming out, but there's nothing wrong with telegraphing to a child that they're not "good enough." It helps them up their game. It obviously doesn't make them more intelligent, but it makes them work that much harder until they get the top grades, awards etc. Asian countries are built on this model. Before you say that those parents don't love their kids -- the view is that it's a tough world out there, if we demand their best and toughen them up, nothing that they face after this will be hard for them.[/quote]

I could not disagree more. In an Asian culture, perhaps this works, but here in the US, it's a terrible way to raise a child. Children should be taught to do their best, but to tell them that their best isn't good enough, well, go to it if it works for your kid, PP, but I think it's a recipe for an unhappy childhood.

OP said nothing about effort, she talked about her disappointment in her child's lack of ability in academics and athletics.

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