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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=maril332]I'm on OP's side. Her friend does not have to act like she's the first person in the world to have issues in life. Ignoring good friends doesn't make it easier. [/quote]

I have to agree.  I have secondary infertility and missing out on my friends' new children is anathema to me.  I choose to think of it as an opportunity to flex my maternal side and grow the love around me, even if it isn't in the way I had imagined.  I understand the pain people go through, but it is hard for me to understand what is gained by isolating oneself and pushing away people who want to love and support you.  I have found that talking frankly about our situation has helped immensely, and that far from being "insensitive," my friends have proven themselves to be amazingly sensitive, gracious, and supportive.  [/quote]

I'm sorry but secondary infertility is different from not being able to have any children at all.  You really don't understand that?[/quote]

I almost think it would be worse for the person with secondary infertility because they [u]actually know[/u] what it's like to create life and be a parent.  People with primary infertility are wallowing in self-imposed misery about a concept that is completely abstract to them.  I feel worse for the person who actually knows what it's like, chooses to do it again, and can not.[/quote]

"Wallowing in self-imposed misery"?  You are truly, truly an asshole.  Feel better or worse for whomever you want, but please - if you've never experienced primary infertility, try to refrain from insulting those have and minimizing their very real emotional pain.[/quote]

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