Reply to Is this appropriate?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Is this appropriate? "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - a little more info - DH says they haven't had lunch very often but he did discuss his marital problems with her and she discussed her problems with him and they do exchange emails once per week.  Also, lately, they have had some long phone calls about their respective situations.  He is still insisting that this is all okay and she is just a casual friend.  He will not show me the emails and said I am being ridiculous and got furious and said I was overstepping my bounds and attacking him.  He may be willing to cut off contact but he has gone back and forth on this, but of course, I will have no way of knowing because I can't check his phone or emails or follow him around at work.  But I am wondering - if she is just a casual friend, why is he discussing his deepest feelings and marital troubles with her?  I told him that this is the part that does not make sense.  He says she is an easy person to talk to...but I say, if they don't have lunch often, why in the world did such a personal topic come up in coversation.  [b]Am I right that this is weird/doesn't make sense?  Or is there a possibility that he is being genuine here?[/b][/quote]

No, you are absolutely right. I would bet every penny I have that he is gas lighting you, OP.

If she is just a friend, then he should be comfortable inviting her over to join your family for dinner one day.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics