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[quote=Anonymous]BTDT  OP.  I'm so sorry, but he's been cheating for a while. She is probably asking him to separate, but he felt a little guilty after proposing you move out so he dropped it for now.

I know it is hard.  The pain of finding out a spouse is cheating is one of the worst feelings someone can feel.  Try to gather what evidence you can now.  You'll need it later.  Check emails, texts, and cell phone use.  Use a keylogger if you have to, he has gone so far over the line he has no right to privacy now.  Keep a copy of all contact.  I wouldn't confront the other woman at this point.  You don't want them to know you are suspicious until you have hard evidence in your hand.

In the meantime, try to get your financial house in order in case it comes to separation or divorce.  Make a plan for what you would do.  It doesn't have to turn out this way - my marriage survived an affair a lot of pain and a lot of work by both of us to make things right in our marriage.  But your DH's continued contact and dishonesty when you clearly have him cornered is worrisome.[/quote]

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