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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. 20:26 and 20:33 are insightful. He is kind of a man that would battle me for the girls. He does have a strong emotional connection to them, especially one. To PP, I really appreciate your input criticism and advice. I am a strong person, I am well put together, educated and I am confident I could build a new happy relationship. It is my marriage that I do not want to give up on just yet. I guess I realize now that I was also looking for comments from those who have stayed and ended up working things through. When things are well, I do love spending time with my husband, I do like him, I do care about him. [b]He's always apologized for being mean, etc, and especially when the girls witnessed anything he made sure to let them know he was wrong and that this behavior was not acceptable. [/b] [b]I see that most times he is trying, remembers birthdays, anniversaries etc, helps out, does nice things for me. [/b] It's the times he can't control his impulsiveness and just blurted out in anger making me feel very sad, hurt and disrespected. [/quote] so then it's an anger management problem? antidepressants wouldn't have solved that. he just needs anger management. [/quote] This is horrible!!! Your poor girls. :shock: Remembering birthdays and anniversaries??? Is that really important to you compared to him being verbally abusive to you in front of your children? [/quote] So says the bored divorce attorney.[/quote] Thank you, frustrated and defensive woman stuck in a shitty marriage. But I am not a family law attorney, and I'm not bored. Her kids will end up just like her, married to abusive men. And it's her fault for marrying him and for having children with him and for staying with him. [/quote]
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