Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "How would you feel if your spouse spent thousands on your birthday gift? "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote]You associate spending lots of money with being selfish and wasteful, but that is unusual[/quote] That is not unusual where I come from. I think OP needs a conversation with her husband about what is valuable to her. And to him, presumably, so they are both on the same page. It doesn't sound like they have the same priorities right not. If the conversation is extremely difficult or you get a lot of push back from DH, or don't feel comfortable talking about this with DH, then maybe marriage counseling is in order, or at least some therapy for OP. But I wouldn't immediately jump to that conclusion.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics