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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom is in a nice assisted living facility in Illinois that is funded by Medicaid and SS. She has the early stages of dementia and we were told she cannot live alone (she was calling the cops constantly, thinking she was being followed). She lived with my sister's family for awhile and was miserable because she didn't like being around little kids. After moving her the assisted living facility, her mental faculties improved greatly. I think living alone made her more confused. I don't know how things will shake out once her disease progresses, but for now it's working out well. My mom always had problems with paranoia and was terrible with money, both of which contributed to my parents' divorce. It's really tough on everyone when you have a family member like this, who just cannot or will not take care of themselves. I agree it isn't fair that she has a warm bed while others may not, but I am so grateful this service exists. It sounds terrible, but she's been a financial drain on everyone her whole life--at least now I can save for retirement so I won't be a financial drain on my own children. And while I know not everyone feels this way, I wouldn't want to live in a place that didn't have some level of protection like this, and I would gladly pay higher taxes to have more services for those in need. [/quote] I think you mean she is in a nursing home, as Medicaid does not cover assisted living - only skilled nursing.[/quote] It may be different in Illinois than it is in our area. We were told it doesn't pay for assisted living but we are trying to get into an income based one. There are options but it is very very hard.[/quote] It is a federal program. It does not cover assisted living anywhere.[/quote]
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