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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I wish there was a way to talk some sense into him. There will be hell to pay for this. [/quote]

No, someone needs to talk some sense into you...[/quote]

Take your unhelpful advice somewhere else.

I'm not going to stop going to my child's sporting or scouting events. I can't just stop talking to him without bailing on my child.

I can switch phone plans. I'm not sure what else is workable. [/quote]

Yes, actually you can.  You can go to the sporting and scouting events and talk to other parents who are not your ex.  Bring  a friend if you want.  You have to put the work in, but it can be done.  You just don't engage.  Block the people on FB who are telling our ex your personal stuff.  They aren't friends to you and your ex can keep them in touch with your kid.  Change your email password to something that your ex would never be able to guess.  Just stop engaging.  You don't have to talk to him at these events or even look at him.  [/quote]

I second this. OP, your follow up messages are very apologist. Your current system sucks. He is controlling you through your phone and your child's activities.

You don't have to stop going. You just have to stop going _with him_.  I am kind of confused as to how those activities play out. You guys go together? And behave as though, what? You're still married? What are you so afraid will happen if you don't go with him and don't sit next to him? Do you think he'll make a scene? Take you to court? For what, not sitting with him or letting him drive?

Think it through.[/quote]

It almost sounds as though Op is...maybe trying to make this guy jealous?  Any truth to that Op?  Do you still have a thing for this fella?[/quote]

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