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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP.  I don't have any words of wisdom, but I do want to tell you that I've been in the same boat.  I divorced my incredibly abusive husband about ten years ago, and he continues to f(#* with my life in whatever way he can.  For the first several years, he monitored my behavior as best he could - from reports from friends, from assumptions from the little bits of "evidence" he collected, etc - and he punished me when he didn't like how he thought I was behaving.

While I still lived in fear of him, I was over the years able to put up some legal walls by demonstrating his crazy behavior to the courts - keeping records of threatening calls/emails, capturing photos when he left gift wrapped shit on my front stairs, removing the GPS tracker that he placed under my car and brining it to the attention of the police and such.  I had to keep a very even keel over those crazy upsetting times - continuing to keep to our parenting agreement perfectly and not responding upset to his crazy emails or messages with my own upset, which he would have used against me.

We're ten years down the line too, and he is still a controlling train wreck of a person but he has a TON less control in my life than he used to.  I've never been too blunt with our daughter, but she sees and understands and has very little desire to spend time with her dad.

I don't know what to say.  You deserve a whole, wonderful life and I am so sorry that your insane ex is trying to stand in your way.  I'm glad that you have a wonderful boyfriend, and I hope that slowly you can regain your freedom.[/quote]

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