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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here:  this is a tough issue.  It is material information from a man's perspective, and as a result many women seem to choose to lie about it.  Then, when the truth comes out, it creates problems that likely would not have existed if she had been honest in the first place.  I have learned that my DW was less than truthful on this issue, and while I would not have cared at all had she been honest, it does make me wonder what else she chose to lie about.  [/quote]

Why is it "material from a man's perspective?" It's not really any of your business.[/quote]

All behavior about our partners is material.  The fact you want to hide it is a red flag.

What kind of relationship do you have with your husband where you withhold information?[/quote]

Another man here.  So you are really interested in your wife's sex life 10 years before you met her?  As a DH, I guess I would be concerned if I asked the question and was lied to.  My hang-up is that I would never ask the question.  My wife was not a virgin when we met and that kinda really all I needed to know on the subject. [/quote]

Two things.  One, extremely high partner count may suggest other issues.  I'd want to know if the number was three digits.  lol

Two, at least in my case, I asked these types of questions out of curiosity.  If you are interested in someone, it seems natural to me to be curious about their life experiences of various sorts.  Why is sex such a forbidden topic?  It is a major part of life and an interesting topic.  This kind of question is not always motivated by insecurity.  In my own case, my DW had her share of experience, and I have no problem with that.   [/quote]

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