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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here:  this is a tough issue.  It is material information from a man's perspective, and as a result many women seem to choose to lie about it.  Then, when the truth comes out, it creates problems that likely would not have existed if she had been honest in the first place.  I have learned that my DW was less than truthful on this issue, and while I would not have cared at all had she been honest, it does make me wonder what else she chose to lie about.  [/quote]

Why is it "material from a man's perspective?" It's not really any of your business.[/quote]

Sex is a big part of marriage, and a person's past is relevant to how they approach it.  And seriously, when evaluating whether or not you want to spend your life with someone, I'd consider pretty much anything my business, and I'd expect either an honest answer or a direct refusal to answer, not a lie.   Why wouldn't you want to be open with your partner, anyway?  I wouldn't feel any need to keep that a secret from my DW if she were interested.  Just like any other issue, I don't feel any need to keep secrets from her.  [/quote]

Sorry. It's not all your business. No one ends to know everything about the person they are marrying. You're right--lying might not bet the best approach, but I don't think the question should even be asked. To me, that would be a red flag..[/quote]

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