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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. A job fell in his lap (literally) and that has taken an incredible amount of stress off. Our relationship is still unhealthy and will not survive another year of what we just went through. We are in counseling and just taking one day at a time. I think the heart of our problem was that we had a long history of disrespectful and toxic interactions, and by the time he lost his job again, there was no foundation to support us in tough times. I think you need to step back and assess how important the marriage is to you. Do you have kids? Another concern for you is that if you leave now, you may have to pay alimony, depending. I have no answers. Did you ever have much respect for him? That is a good indicator of how likely this relationship is to survive. It's such an awful situation for you, I'm sorry. I think therapy - couples and individual - is very helpful.[/quote]
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