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[quote=Anonymous]Man Here. First, I'm a regular at SurvivingInfidelity.com, so I too have "BTDT" (I know what you meant). Don't tip your hand. You're probably emotional and it's taking the form of anger or extreme hurt (or both). Right now, however you need to think clearly about the endgame. Confronting her will do very little in court. The best thing you can do is to build a case and collect evidence. Talk to a lawyer and make sure she doesn't know you're on to her. When you have enough of a case, then you can follow your attorney's advice on how to proceed. In my case, I left the minute I read her emails about their weekend together and saw the explicit photos that they were sending back and forth. My leaving was considered abandoning the family, and apparently oral sex isn't considered adultery in some places. Go figure. Get your facts and case together else you can end up paying alimony for something you didn't do. [/quote]
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