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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At one point, my wife and I were having sex every 3 - 6 weeks.  I finally talked to her about it. The talk made her sad. However, I was surprised to find out that she thought I was cool with it. Turns out that being a laid back husband, trying to give her the space she needed, and not focusing on sex backfired on me. Contrary to what I'd been led to believe, pushing for sex can be the right thing to do.

We're up to once every week or two. Still not as frequent as I'd like; but loads more tolerable. 
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So is it "duty" sex or does your wife activity participate?  It has been 9 Sexless years for my DW and I.  And 9years ago, It was just to conceive my Daughter.  So that was one and done each time.  My DW has always been a One and Done type.  The second and third time for me is the most fun.  The second is the longest, but my DW is a "Are you done yet?" type so we have never gone past one.  So the last sexless 9years were bad, but the 10+ years of boring maybe once a month sex before that was bad too.  I too was a laid back and give her space DH.  I really should have divorced her over 18years ago, but I love me my kids.[/quote]

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