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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I had almost a week to process what happened. We are from a "loud" culture so yelling isn't a deal breaker. Treating a customer service person badly is a big red flag. I added a big tip (from his wallet) so I do think he understands he crossed the line and he apologized to me. I think I will watch us very carefully but this alone will not make me end it with him. [/quote]

Apologizing to you almost makes it worse.  What did he apologize for?  An apology does no good for the waiter, it's simply a move designed to keep you in the picture.

"I've been dating a fellow for a couple of months. Last week he yelled at a waiter and got easily frustrated over a failure to get his order exactly right. When I tried to calm him down, he yelled at me too. And was petulant all evening. I left a 25% tip to the poor waiter. I went home instead of staying the night as I usually do. Is this a deal breaker? He is 39, never been married. I'm a 31 year old divorcee."

"Loud" is different from impatient, unreasonable, petulant, or demeaning.  [/quote]

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