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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As part of a couple on 3rd year of no sex, it might seem that the person who said no is in control. But actually, if DH would just make a concerted effort, tell me why he loves me, notice what is great about me, provide no-obligation caresses and gratuitous affection, I would probably just melt; I'm pretty sure he could get whatever he wants. He's not willing to work for it so that's why it doesn't happen. So he controls.[/quote] You've rejected him for three years. There is nothing for him to work for, setting yourself up for ongoing rejection is incredibly painful. You are 100% in control. Interesting that what you expect of him you don't expect of yourself. [/quote]
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