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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 27 years old and ugly.  I have been on zero dates, and agree that lots of men are rude/uncomfortable around me because they are afraid someone will think they are interested in me, which would be SO disgusting and embarassing to them.  Those who say that it's just a matter of being confident don't get it.  When you are average-to-pretty, the worst thing that might happen if you put yourself out there is that a guy will turn you down.  When you are ugly, guys will go out of their way to shame you and punish you for not realizing that they are out of your league.  Those who are willing to entertain the idea of being with an ugly woman do so because they assume that I would give lots of blow jobs/do anything they want sex-wise/be undemanding in bed, and when they realize that I actually dare to want to get to know them before putting out, they make it clear that I am not worth the effort.

I have been bullied or ignored since middle school.  I much prefer ignored.  People assume that I will be outgoing and funny.  I am not allowed to be serious or introverted, because that's too high-maintenance for a fugly girl.  I have only one male friend (gay) because all straight men avoid being seen with me, as it would lower their social standing.  I tend to be friends with really beautiful women.  I am drawn to them because I have always been fascinated by physically attractive people (a little unhealthy, I know), and because I don't feel competitive towards them the way average-to-pretty women often do.  I will be the DUFF regardless of who I am with, so I may as well be friends with stunning women.

I am 5'6" and a size 20.  I eat no gluten or corn or white rice.  The only sweetener I ever use is honey.  I eat almost exclusively whole, organic foods.  I don't do as much cardio as I should.  I do hike or walk for an hour 2-3 times per week.  I have thin, fine hair that is rapidly thinning (have sought medical help, but I can't afford the recommended treatments).  I have pale, freckly skin and small eyes.  I am luckier than some, in that my skin is bad, but can be plastered over with sufficient quantities of makeup for special occasions.  My nose is large, with a bump.  I wear makeup and clothes that fit as well as I can find, but it's hard to find clothes that flatter my particular body shape (broad shoulders, small breasts, large hips and thighs).  I work with kids, and they often ask me why I am fat, have those "owies" on my face, or when "the pretty teacher" will be back when my co-teacher is absent.[/quote]

I was overweight and was ugly. Lost weight and got into the normal weight range and went up to just under less than average attractive.  Who knows maybe if I had it in me if I got down to underweight I would move up to average.

Don't discount the overweight issue.  Losing the weight will shift things around and help out some.[/quote]

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I so agree with this advice.  You are only 27 - that is so young!  Do not give up on your dreams to date and/or get married and have children.  Do whatever it takes to lose the weight and get in shape and make yourself more confident and attractive.  I have several friends who did not lose the weight until their mid-40's and by then, they were so mad at themselves and they feel like life has passed them by.  These were women who were not dating much and were sorrowful about not having a family, but they waited too long to lose the weight and join match.com, etc. [/quote]

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