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[quote=CindyBindy][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've seen plenty of "ugly" married people.  To think that low self esteem doesn't impact how others see you is just putting yourself at a disadvantage.  i wish there was a way to post a picture.  I bet you are not as unattractive as you think. [/quote]

But projecting self-confidence isn't just a choice like getting a new haircut.  It's a personality trait.  If you are normal-looking, then you can be shy, acerbic, outgoing, ditzy, pesimistic or assertive and plenty of people will take time to get to know you and appreciate who you are.  If you are unattractive, you have to have natural charisma to overcome your appearance.  People will not overlook an introverted personality or a snarky comment from an ugly girl, because we are obviously not worth getting to know.  We get exactly 1 strike against us.[/quote]

True, but if you fit the conventional definition of "pretty" and yet are either introverted or have a bitchy attitude, then you won't attract quality people into your life. You'll just attract assholes who are prepared to deal with your bad attitude/introverted-ness/low self-esteem for as long as it takes to get what they want from you - be it sex or something else. They aren't going to respect you more, or genuinely like you, just because you are "pretty". And if they do, it would probably be because they have serious self-esteem issues of their own.[/quote]

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