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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NO EXCUSES 0006. Have some self control. You both made a choice to be foul. It is common sense that you don't get close to the opposite sex....especially if you are having marriage issues. An affair would bot have happened if you exerted some self control, used common sense, and put that affair energy into your marriage.[/quote]

This is a crock of BS.  I did put a lot of energy and effort into my marriage.  For all I know he did to.  It just got to the point that no matter how much energy we put in, we were getting nothing except a roof over our heads and children to raise.  No companionship, no love, and definitely no sex.  And yes, if one of us was happy, the affair would not have happened.  The spouses played a role even as a cheated spouse you don't want to own up to your culpability.  [/quote]

So if you sat in the basement and drank yourself into a coma - it would have been his fault too. You act like it was an either/or situation. There are a multitude of other ways to have addressed your issue. YOU CHOSE the most selfish way. You are selfish. Plain and simple.[/quote]

Wow!  NP here, and PP it is astounding to me that you presume to know enough to judge that other poster so clearly and vehemently!  You are obviously very pained, and I can only hope you put as much energy and clarity into your own life and relationships.  I also hope you own your own choices the way you are insisting the other poster owns hers.  [/quote]

I am not pained until I get the inevitable call from my female friends who have their affair partners dump them when the wife finds out. Then the AP’s wife calls the husband. Then I get the call. The crying, the feeling of emptiness, the what have I done, the husband who had no clue, the children who are freaking out, the mom who has to move into an apartment (because that is the law when you are a slut).

Wake up people! You are adults! You have responsibilities! There are other people that are affected by your selfishness.

I am sorry if your H did not fill every emotional need you have, every single crevices in your soul. Here is an idea - fill them yourself - with something other than a man. Get a job! Get a life! Do some volunteer work!
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