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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think she is gorgeous. She has the biggest blue eyes I have ever seen on any child and looks like an absolute doll ( albeit a brown-haired doll). I am just worried about when she gets older and other kids/adults start judging based on looks. Nobody else worries about what their kid is going to look like?[/quote] You equate brunette with being unattractive?? What about Cindy Crawford, Eva Longoria, Linda Evangalista, Olivia Wilde to name a few. You think people are going to judge her for not being blonde?? You have SERIOUS image issues. I'm not even saying this to be snarky but you really do need to see a therapist so that you can work these issues out. The pressure you are going to put on your child to strive for your version of perfection is going to be unbearable for her if this is what you are doing to her as a baby.[/quote] I think those women are all stunning. However, I remember being in school, and none of the kids thought there was anything special about people with brown hair; blonds ruled. There is nothing I dislike about my daughter. I just don't want her to have a harder time in life because of the way she looks. I think that is natural to a certain extent, isn't it? [b]I'm not talking about bleaching her skin FFS[/b].[/quote] Honestly, I think that it's basically the same thing. I don't know where you grew up (FL or CA, perhaps?), but the whole "blondes have more fun" thing that you're going with, is simply not true. How about you look at successful women out there (Sheryl Sandberg, Nancy Pelosi, etc..., all not blonde) and try to hope that your daughter turns out like them and not like the bimbo cheerleader that you were in high school. Anyone who looks back at their school days as their glory days is just pathetic, IMO.[/quote]
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