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Reply to "I can't look my friend in the eye because she just had an abortion"
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[quote=Anonymous]Would you judge her if you weren't dealing with infertility or would you understand? Simply put, you're projecting. Your friend is not you and this wasn't your baby. Wishing bad "karma" on her in the future would lend itself to attributing your issues to your past behavior. And that sucks. Look, I might not like the way my rich friends spend money. Or the way my beautiful friends meet crappy men all the time. But those are their choices to make, and just because I don't have their options I refuse to try to make their decisions. I'm not in charge. You're not in charge. You may need to terminate for health issues when you finally get pregnant. Many of my friends have. You'll be thankful to have the option then. Right now you're angry because your choiceless in the matter. But you're first impulse is to take away another's freedom of choice. That makes you ethically troubled, I'd say. [/quote]
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