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[quote=Anonymous]I have found lots of nice moms in the suburbs.

There is a certain dynamic that all people fall prey to, women maybe more so.  I told my girls about this when they hit MS.  For some reason our minds are programmed to be atracted to the popular girls.  The ones that are pretty and well dressed and standing in a big circle having fun and chatting and laughing.  We flock to them like moths to flame.  But those girls/women already have friends and a group and an established dynamic.  It is hard to break into that.  If you look around and find the girls/women who are kind of off to the sides maybe on their own or in a smaller group, that’s probably more fertile ground for you.  Some of them might be introverts that just want to be on their own.  But some may be just waiting to make a friend.

I’m wondering if you’re flocking to the queen bee group and unconsciously ignoring the silent majority that are the nice, chill moms.

I do think there are some smaller (private?) schools where there is one group that dominates, and that is hard.  But if you have a public school with 150 kids per grade, it’s hard to believe that all 150 moms are bullies. [/quote]

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