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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a symptom of a bigger issue in current parenting trends:

Kids need experience failures in order to learn how to grow. Yet American parents are increasingly willing and able to step in and prevent their kids from failing. [/quote]

This is a cheap "blame the parents" strategy that doesn't go deep enough. WHY are parents stepping in to do for their kids what previous generations might've let kids struggle through? Because there's far less time to deal with the consequences of these struggles. When homemaker mom was home to deal with skinned knees and errant sports equipment and running the occasional forgotten lunch to school, it made sense to let kids tinker and try. Now, with most families having two parents working outside the home, life is managed to the details to make sure schedules stay on track and things get done in the limited amount of "free" time parents might have.

It isn't necessarily a choice or a failing on the part of the parent(s).[/quote]

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