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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m going to sit on my hands otherwise but you have a mean girl and you have contributed to her materialism and her likely mistreatment of other girls without Alo leggings and Stanley cups.

You’ll never fix it or her by being the kind of woman who produced that for years. [/quote]

You realize posting this kind of thing means you are a mean girl, right? [/quote]

You’re offended. Unlike OP, and you, my husband and I inculcated empathy into our tween DD. She is as “accomplished” as what OP has described and is very well-liked. She is not cold, mean, or instrumentalist. Because it mattered to us and because of who we are.

You’re a little on edge because you and OP failed in this as mothers. Failed, and now are lurking here faux-fretting about what can be done when that trait has been refined for years and years now by your parenting and communication. Parents who are troubled by their neurotypical tweens and teens who are cold and lack empathy are the culprits. We both know that.

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This is OP.

Your comments throughout this post don’t align with the person you claim to be. The repeated unkindness and negative assumptions you’ve made are a reminder of why it’s so important to teach my daughter empathy, kindness, and respect for others. I want her to grow into someone who seeks to understand people rather than tear them down or elevate herself by diminishing others.

I genuinely wish you well and hope whatever experiences have shaped this response are met with healing and growth. Truly.
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