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[quote=Anonymous]He sees you working on yourself and wants to put you down so you don’t start to notice that you are good enough not to deserve his shit.  Of my friends who were in shitty relationships at 32/33/34:

1) Was married with kids to the guy, found out at 36 he had been cheating they tried to work through it but she finally realized he was selfish and not interested in making her happy so they split and she us now 2 years in with a loving and supportive boyfriend and thriving in her career and her husband finally has to show up and do some parenting bc he has shared custody.

2) She broke off an engagement, did 6 months of intense therapy then jumped into dating with an eye to a man who would be a good father and husband.  Now early 40’s with an adorably dorky husband who loves and supports her and is hands-on with their two kids.

3) Refused to settle, took a few years to work on herself and focused on her career, now moving up the ladder at a white shoe firm’s LA office and lives by the beach.

4) Did a lot of therapy and realized she didn’t need or want a husband; just to be a mom.  Just had a baby with donor sperm and could not be happier.

5) She stayed with him and had kids; he constantly dragged her down but the last straw was when he started to dig them both into deep credit card debt.  She’s now a single mom paying him alimony and raising the kids alone.

The point OP is that you know for sure that this person does not make you happier or stronger or better.  Go find something that does.  I don’t know what it is for you but it’s for sure not this guy.[/quote]

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