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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.

[img]https://imgcdn.stablediffusionweb.com/2024/11/4/f9e51ed2-7ef5-4dc3-8929-e62c6ab88184.jpg[/img][/quote]

Not UMC to wealthy men. Walk into an expensive country club and you won't see many overweight women. The majority are thin to very thin. [/quote]

This is true in major cities but it's not about attraction. I bet a lot of those men would be very attracted to these women. But people in the "expensive country club" bracket tend to be very status conscious, and having a thin wife is a status thing. A lot of wealthy men cheat on their thin wives with women who are not thin.

And outside of major cities, there is often more diversity, especially at the UMC level. If you are in Nashville or Minneapolis or New Orleans or Dallas, you will encounter plenty of heavier women in the UMC bracket. Including at country clubs. Some are unhappy about their weight and looking to lose (and may now be taking GLPs). But some women carry weight well (like the women in the photos above) and have husbands who vastly prefer them at that size than smaller.

The idea that thinness=sexual attractiveness is very much a cultural construct and there are a lot of biological reasons that many men prefer much bigger women. And I say this as someone who is naturally thin, I'm not trying to justify my weight. It's just something I've observed in my life. Some men are attracted to my body type but a LOT are clearly not interested and want someone with a big butt and big boobs. Even the ones who, for social status reasons, may wind up marrying a thin woman.[/quote]

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