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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love this thread because I can just feel the anxiety rise when I enter with all my boys.  The utter chaos and physicality just causes some peoples blood pressure to visibly rise.   I watch those folks chasing anxiously after their own child and think, Jesus, what’s the worst that can happen if he goes screaming down the hallway.

When you are outnumbered, your ability to control goes way down.  That lack of control over your children allows more space for simply joy.  It’s really fun to scream and yell and then they tire each other out and go to bed!  I am enjoying my kids childhoods and find that I am way less stressed than parents of fewer children who have a much stronger need to feel they are doing everything right.  [/quote]

[b]I have an only and I never go anxiously chasing after my kid because it is totally unnecessary. She's [/b]very trustworthy and independent and I know she'll check in with us before doing something risky or new.

Big families stress me out when they come over because their kids aren't like that. There's always at least one kid who will do something crazy that I cannot imagine my kid ever doing even in our own home much less in someone else's home, without even asking. Like moving furniture, going through drawers, trying to climb things that my kid would know not to climb.

I also don't think it's fun to scream and yell. I have tons of fun as a parent but I don't like screaming. People like that??? I taught my kid not to scream because it hurts people's ears and feels stressful. Do your kids also scream and yell in restaurants and movie theaters and at school? Cool.[/quote]

You have one risk averse girl and you like quiet. There is nothing wrong with the loud and rambunctious boys or their parents. It is just different, and you just don't get it and never will. What do you do with your quiet, risk averse daughter that is "tons of fun"? [/quote]

Interesting to me how defensive the parents of the loud, obnoxious kids are.  Insinuating that if a person has a well-behaved or risk-averse child they are boring?  That there is something wrong with them?  F no.  Just like your it's okay to be a rough and tumble kid ---at your own house if your own parents are fine with it.  FFS what is wrong with you people?

Teach your kids to behave themselves at *someone else's* home.  What you do around your house is your choice.  Have at it.  But stuff your faux judgy nonsense that is really defensiveness because you know your kids are behaving badly.  Teach your kids some manners.[/quote]

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