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[quote=Anonymous]I really think it's a balancing act and a bit of a double edged sword. If you focus solely on the children and don't put effort in to your marriage, it will likely fail. If you focus on your marriage, chances are your spouse is more likely to play a larger role with the children. I guess I just answered the question right there, marriage first. I've had to shift my focus to my spouse recently. We do have small children but our marriage came dangerously close to failure last year. Putting our focus back on one another allows us to work together as a husband/wife to one another as well as parents to our children. I don't think it's possible for me to quantify the love I have for my spouse vs my children. They are different types of love. For me, it would be like trying to compare apples to oranges, there is no comparison. [/quote]
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