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[quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous][quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous]Right now, if push comes to shove, then my kid. But that is just because he is a kid (i.e., small innocent child). The answer ofcourse will change as he grows up and becomes more independent. [/quote]
It's easy to say that but figure that it will be at least until the child drives before he/she is truely independent enough for you to put that plan into action. There is always something to do or somewhere to take them. Hopefully by the time that arrives in another decade or so your marriage will have survived the way you want it to and you and your spouse aren't just two people occupying the same house. 
Do what you have to to keep your marriage strong now and then in 10 years you won't have to try to reconnect. [/quote]

This coming from the idiot who believes swinging will strengthen your marriage.  Please.[/quote]

If swinging is the method you choose to keep connected then so be it. However what I said in my post doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex. Keep connected with your spouse, talk to them about things other than what is on the kids scedule for the weekend. Try and date your husband or wife if not once a week then regularly. Set aside time for each other, be willing to tell the kids that they have to wait a few minutes to get that drink because mommy and daddy are talking. Show your spouse that you still care for them as a person, friend, and yes even lover and not the the co-parent of your children. Keep that connection alive now and then when the kids all leave you won't have to reconnect later. Plus your children will hopefully have better relationships with their own spouses because you will have shown them what it takes to have a good marriage. [/quote]

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