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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, DCUM is not the right place to have this discussion. Most posters never force their kids to do anything, and have an unhealthy fixation on sports. [b]Being proficient[/b] in Mandarin Chinese will be an asset for our children's generation. It will be easier if they learn as kids, and not as adults. Please do this for your children. When they're teens, they will understand the gift they've been given. Young kids never do, and yes, you will need to drag them to weekend school kicking and screaming. Too bad. There is a payoff at the end, and it's major. Even for college admissions, they will have an advantage. We're not of Chinese ancestry, but I dragged my kids kicking and screaming to their native language school for years. As teens, they went willingly. They picked a different language at school, which meant that for college admissions, they had to all intents and purposes, two foreign languages, studied to AP level (one native, one non-native). Our world is becoming more and more connected and China is the next Superpower. It's a no-brainer. [/quote] My kids have been attending heritage language school since pre-k and I know the effort and the sacrifice that goes into it. I also know the heritage school on its own is nowhere enough without reading books, watching movies, speaking, and visiting home country for “immersion experience”. Given what op mentioned in her post, OP’s kids will not become proficient simply because they won’t have chance to practice the language. Not even at home, which is already minimal given they spend at least 40 hours at school. There are other options, like doing Duolingo or taking it in highschool, that will end up with same result for op given op’s specific circumstances. The only benefit I see for op, is for kids to get to know their community, but there maybe other options for that for mandarin speakers outside of heritage language school.[/quote] The parents speak the language! Plenty of kids go to school all day and come home to a different language. Duolingo will not work as the primary source. [/quote] The op and her husband speak it 10% of the time and 90% English. So the kids will be coming home after school to more English. [/quote]
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