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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Leave them and see how it takes for him to fold them. [/quote]

Leave them and when your inlaws arrive, explain that your DH put their towels "right here on the floor, so help yourselves".[/quote]

This is the only answer. If they act shocked and imply that it’s somehow your fault, say yeah I wish his parents had taught him how to not be a useless ahole but they didn’t so what can you do.[/quote]

This is giving me flashbacks to when my DC was born. DH didn’t do anything for his visiting parents and when he did do something similar to this towel incident, his mother twisted it and blamed and judged me. It was a sign of things to come. He left me out of the blue and his mother was full of criticism for the way I existed as a wife and took care of our child, even though she was supportive for the previous 10 years.

He’s showing you who he is AND how he was raised AND how he expects you to step in to do anything you don’t want to do. File this away but not too deeply because it’s telling you something that you can’t deal with now but will have to face, by choice or not, at some point in the future.  [/quote]

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