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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As per chump lady, affairs need to be exposed. Where OP does it, is upto her, but I wont judge her for feeling what she is feeling. Betrayal sucks the soul out of a person-signed, BTDT[/quote]

Frankly not a fan of chump lady. She's got one tune, and one tune only.[/quote]

love her. very real and very funny. Really exposes how stupid and narcissistic cheating is. maybe this is the reason you don’t like her tune?[/quote] NP here and her site was suggested to me when I found out about my now ex's affair. I didn't find her site all that great either but I've posted many times about this here. I decided from the get go that it didn't ultimately matter why my ex did what he did and that I didn't necessarily need to understand him. I needed to understand myself and why I brought someone like him into my life and why I stayed for so long knowing I did not love him and that our relationship was terrible.  Too much focus on the behavior of the cheating spouse. I think most of us can agree that cheating is cowardly and that cheaters have their own serious issues and that they lack a clear moral compass etc... at the end of my day I have to live with myself and work my way through the carnage he created when he blew up the marriage. Endless discussion/reading about cheaters' NPDs isn't ultimately helpful. It's helpful to get educated about it and then work on yourself so you don't end up with that kind of person again.[/quote]

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