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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Wow this took off. Lots of thoughts to process.

Different from others posting, I'm not really Type A. I'm not an overachiever, I don't talk a lot, and I'm not controlling of other people. I would never ask to change tables at a restaurant, and if my dining companion did, I would get so stressed out because I worry it's screwing things up for the staff and that they are annoyed with us and that would be my focus for the rest of the meal.

I'm just neurotic and worry about things a lot. This leads to me not being "game" for things because I over think them, and that's what annoys people. Or just my general vibe, because I'm not relaxed and smiling and go with the flow -- I tend to have a more serious expression on my face and don't come off as relaxed (because I am not). People seem to steer clear of me, and I think it's because I seem tightly wound and stressed out a lot.

It bothers me both because I don't enjoy feeling this way and also because I can tell it is off-putting to others. It's just the whole thing. But I've tried hard to change my nature and become more easy going, and this is just who I am.[/quote]

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