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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a faithful husband I read all these stories about wives forgiving and staying with their POS hubbies and I feel like I am missing something lol..Maybe I should have an affair too cause DW will probably forgive me.

Nah she is the perfect woman for me. There is nothing another woman can/will offer me that my wife hasn't/won't offer me.[/quote]
Cheating is rarely about finding someone better; it’s far more often connected to unresolved personal trauma or unmet internal needs. [b]The psychology behind it is complex,[/b] and framing it otherwise overlooks a substantial body of research on the subject.

So no, not everyone would cheat. Individuals with a stable internal framework generally don’t. But the motivations behind it are still understandable, even to those who would never make that choice.[/quote] It's not complex at all.  Most people cheat for sex. The fill in the gap for the lack of sex in their relationship.  That's a simple desire.  The motivation to cheat is not complex.  Substantial body of research my a$$.  Cheaters aren't talking to "researchers."[/quote]
A rational post finally. Btw I find cheating abhorrent. However I agree with you regarding why people cheat. There’s no “psychology” behind it. When two people of opposite gender meet in isolation, many times (not always) leads to sex[/quote]

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