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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the PSA should be:

USE YOUR WORDS!

If you want something specific done or given on that day, make it crystal clear.

"Larlo, I want you to buy me X. It looks like this, and you can get it at Y store. Here's the link."

"Larlo, can we try restaurant Z? I'll make the reservation."

Stop waiting around expecting another human to read your mind.

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OP here.  I can read your spouse’s mind 99% of the time.

- hire a sitter
- make a plan to get a meal
- write a nice card
If you are planning to do it a different day, then communicate that.

Other than that: 
Women:  get your spouse something sexual
Men:  give your wife something romantic

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I don't know who you think you're speaking for, but I'm a woman and I don't want something romantic for Valentine's Day. [/quote]

OP here.  Really?  If your husband, gave you something romantic, say, a love poem he wrote for you, and he gave it to you on Valentine’s Day, you would tell him you didn’t want it?  Why?

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I didn't say I would reject something from him, I'm saying I don't want it, as in I'm not looking for it.

My husband writes me very nice things (not poems, honestly I'm not into poetry so that's fine with me), and gives them to me throughout the year. I'd rather he do that when he feels like it than be forced to do it on a particular day of the year.

But if you want to keep arguing for the sake of arguing, go ahead. I'll stay in my happy marriage and make it to the other side of February 14 just fine, regardless of what happens on that day. [/quote]

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