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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My XH remarried almost immediately.  For him he wanted someone to take care of him because adulting is hard!  It’s so much easier when you have a life manager and someone who takes care of everything for you and when you lose that due to divorce you’re eager to replace it.  It’s a business relationship.  [/quote]

What's saddest about this is how these men are probably divorced because they took their first wife's labor for granted. Only after they didn't have it were they truly aware of how much she did for them. Now they want to replace that labor, but probably haven't leveled up at all in the gratitude or partnership areas. That's why most women are cautious about relationships with divorced me. Some of them learn, most of them haven't yet.[/quote]

They are not that aware. Ever.
They continue to think they were killing it at being a good husband and parent. Look at all the occasional posed selfies they have to prove it!

They have no shame. They have maladaptive copes like blaming their ex wife for everything, self denial and delusional re-writing of narratives.

On dates the most they’ll say is: I worked too much.

That is code for, I was a shitty adult parent and spouse.

But now that my kids are in college, I can be a great companion! Until someone else needs something besides money. [/quote]

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