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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]51 M who didn’t leave and stayed for the kids.  The years I have invested with the kids have been great, but I regret every minute of the marriage.  [b]I am not an ahole or addict, just a guy who apparently became too safe for a SAHM to stay faithful.[/b]  I wish I had left before and am filing early next year.

Hopefully, I can find someone who can love me after ~20 years of loneliness and now having a STD from my kids Dear Mom.   I will never get my life back, but maybe I can build a new one before I die.  If not, at least I will no longer dread coming home.  [/quote]
With all due respect, sounds like you haven’t done the work yet. I have said as much to two of my female friends who play victim 100% of the time after their DHs cheated too. [/quote]

Considering I am the victim in this situation, I don’t have to play the victim.  Please tell me the reasons that I should own her lies, manipulations and deception, so I can blame myself for being abused by the woman I gave everything I had to for half of my life.  [/quote]
You were the victim of cheating, but you were not the victim of the dissolution of the marriage. Do people really think life is so black and white??[/quote]

Yes, relationships go through challenging periods, but being perfect was not in the vows.  Adultery was the vow, seems pretty black and white to people who don’t need to create gray to justify why their actions and look at themselves in the mirror.   Not all things are black and white, but I don’t see any gray in an affair.  [/quote]

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