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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While you don’t need the money, I would still charge her at least $500/month. Put the money aside and apply it towards the upcoming wedding that you anticipate in a few months/year. [/quote] This charging and then returning it later is infantilizing. Either ask for a contribution or skip it. [/quote] No. If you let her move back you at least want to help her maintain financial discipline so that she’s settling aside an amount equivalent to rent every month. Could be “rent” to you or HSA/extra 401k/ira/etc, but you don’t want to put her in a position where moving out later would be a significant step down in lifestyle if she had to budget for rent. [/quote]
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