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[quote=Anonymous]"This is so tragically naive. There's no predicting who can "grow and change together" BECAUSE no one stays the same. You can try to find someone you're generally compatible with, and you can try to find someone who's open to change and willing to evolve, but there are zero guarantees here. Life gets lifey and there's no way to predict who will step up and handle it and who might crumple and fold." THIS THIS THIS I married someone that NOBODY would have thought would cave. It took several years, but eventually conditions changed and he could no longer hold it together. What we all thought was a stable, do the right thing - stand up man was actually all a facade that he'd spent a lifetime constructing and maintaining. Interestingly, it was when he started to realize that he was a people pleaser "good guy" that he overcompensated and decided to become fixated on finally getting what HE wanted, to hell with everyone else. [/quote]
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