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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been married 12 years to a man who is genuinely a good, ethical man who is *capable* of empathy. That said, he also has what we’ll call narcissistic tendencies (not full blown - there are moments of clarity), and he has been a self centered ass during many periods in our marriage where I really needed support. Like when I got laid off right after maternity leave and had to go on months of grueling and discouraging interviews while taking care of 2 young children. Or like when he did absolutely nothing for my 40th birthday 2 years after I coordinated a great party for his birthday. After some very serious fights and discussions he is claiming to recognize the self centered neglect and impact it has had on me. Can a person ever truly change? Or should I prepare for more of the same? [/quote] Most people do improve with time. Mine did. I'm glad I didn't give up. [/quote]
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