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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are trying to gauge your finances. There are a lot of men and women in the dating pool that are floundering in very large debt.

I've had the dates follow me out to the parking lot to get a look at the car I am driving (again...trying to gauge your finances.)[/quote]

A woman I dated for a couple months gauged my finances. I had an apartment in DC, and not a cheap one, that I rented with the intention of staying in during the week. She wanted to "talk" where she stated that she couldn't be in a relationship with someone my age ( 34 at the time) who did own a condo or home. What she didn't know was that I had a $6 million beach house, a 2.5 million dollar house I owned that I let my parents use rent free, and a $1.5 million condo on the Med in Nice. I looked at her in disbelief, smiled and laughed out loud, said thanks got up, dropped $50 on the table for our drinks and walked out of cafe without saying another word.[/quote]

You are definitely lying. And if not, you are terrible with finances. [/quote]

Not lying and how by what metric does this make me terrible with finances?[/quote]

1. Allow your parents freeload off you instead of making use of the $2.5m locked in the house . Parents should have a trust set up for them making payments but not live in a multi million estate free 2. $1.5m condo in Nice is either BS orca very stupid decision. I dated an actual billionaire. He did an extensive research on buying RE in France and Italy and decided against. It’s a tax trap - they can really get you by the balls for taxes. Also condos don’t appreciate as well as SF. Again, money wasted.

Sighed $7m NW woman [/quote]

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