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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She talks to you about how he is looking at her?  [/quote]
My daughter would talk to me about this for sure, not weird at all if you have a close relationship as daughter/mother.[/quote]

Ok, I have an incredibly close relationship with my daughters and neither would tell me "John is staring at me in class."  
Something is off about this.  
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Sad. Absolutely your daughter should feel self aware to notice this (guaranteed it happens) and safe and supported by you enough to bring it up. [b]I would looking at red flags in your relationship and your views on sexuality if she isn't. [/b]My daughter brought it up many times, and with friends in the car too.

This is something they need help with and also a concern behavior if they're alone with men like this. Most of the time my daughter brought it up but a few times I did when it happened when we were together. These men are disgusting and their sick thoughts can worm their way in if women don't defend against it.[/quote]

DP. You are crazy. I bolded one sentence, but actually, your whole post is crazy.

To the PP whose daughter wouldn’t bring this up, same here. [/quote]

I don't understand how you possibly think this is a good or normal thing that your daughter will not talk to you about when things like this happen in her life. This is a valuable door to have open between you. It takes a lot of conversations to teach values on healthy sexuality especially in our current society, there's a lot to undo from religion and otherwise. [/quote]

I don’t know, maybe no one’s staring at her. Maybe she’s completely oblivious to it. Maybe she notices but ignores it. She’s a very confident young woman who has never really cared what anyone—boy or girl—thinks about how she looks or how she’s presenting herself. I don’t go looking for issues where none appear to be.[/quote]

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