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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have the same type of story.  Sit in the next cube from a guy who is intelligent, well educated, funny, and ambitious - also has a killer bod - LOL.

He is very easy to talk to and we have gone through the usual office conversation about family, where we grew up, hobbies, etc.  I have a good marriage but like anything, after 15 years together the flame changes from the intial chemistry.  So we talk, laugh, I find out some things about his marriage and think, "how can his wife treat him like this......."  And should I add that we ask each day what time the other person is leaving and walk out together?

What got me to stop was how it was affecting my everyday life - does he like what I am wearing?  How did he say hello when he saw me?

OP, it's all fantasy.  The man in my office is a human being who I am sure sometimes can be a jerk to his wife and  unfair to his kids.  And no doubt any problems at home are also his fault - doesn't it always work that way?

So now, we leave at different times, I work on the things that are good about my husband, and leave the school girl fantasies where they belong.  There is nothing wrong with having some kind of little crush, but at least for me, it was going to far in my head.
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