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[quote=Anonymous]You mentioned things changing around college- honestly that seems to be one of those life inflection points where you make new friendships and cull others.  Sometimes its obvious and other times its a more gradual pulling away, particularly if one side keeps up efforts for a while.  I had a small group of friends from high school that I was close with and the first summer back from college one of them called me to say she no longer wanted to be friends with another in the group for XYZ reasons.  And followed it up with "Oh but of course I still want to hang out with YOU" but she never initiated contact again and brushed me off when I did.  At the time it felt worse than breaking up with a boyfriend, but I don't think she really liked HS or our hometown and wanted a clean break.

Obviously a bit different since this is your sister but I get the sense you miss having her as a "friend" rather than just an obligatory sister relationship.  I would follow through on the wedding obligations as cheefully as possible and then devote your energy into friendships that aren't so one-sided.[/quote]

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