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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I had an abortion while in college and told my then-boyfriend about it as things got serious. The fact that he was so understanding about it made me even more sure he was the right guy for me. Married 16 years.[/quote]

[quote]One untimely pregnancy and abortion at young age doesn't say much about you, it does say something about your PCP who didn't offer proper birth control.[/quote]

Yes, it does say something about her. Most of us know what causes pregnancy once we hit our early teens. If she wanted to be sexually active, she should have taken measures to ensure that she did not get pregnant. It is not up to her PCP; it is up to her (and her partner, as noted below).

Now, many things can happen (birth control failures, date rape, etc.) that she would have had no control over. Also, her partner had a massive hand in the event, and he should have taken steps to prevent pregnancy as well.

So, how it happened plays a massive role in how to process it. And this poster's partner (the man who got her pregnant) should share this fact with his partners and take on the same responsibility that she should for it.[/quote]

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