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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- everyone saying it's not my problem. I understand he is not my problem but in my mind, stability for my children is my problem. For example, if he moves to a studio far away and can't drive, then does he stop having custody of the kids? That would be so traumatic for them.

I have all my savings. He drained his savings to pay for his dui.[/quote]

Look, if you wanted to take care of him, you should have stayed married. Right now you need to focus on YOUR household which is you and your children.

Inviting an unemployed man with a DUI move into your basement is a horrible life decision.

Taking your child out of daycare to stay with an unemployed man with a DUI is a terrible life decision.

The above are not controversial. They’re not opinions. You need to make sure you’re financially separate from this man and focus on YOU. And your children’s unemployed, alcoholic father with a DUI sees them a little less while he gets his shit together, that’s not a bad thing.

Make an appointment with a lawyer NOW to talk about your divorce options. But for the love of god, do not  let this man keep dragging you down. 
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