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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels.  If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does.  Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.  [/quote]

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already[/quote]

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.[/quote]

I'm not the original PP, but I've done this multiple times. Granted, it was a lot more frequent earlier in our relationship, and we've only been together 15 years, so the version of this I did over the weekend doesn't count, I guess.

As for the OP, it sounds like you need to figure out how to enjoy spending time with your husband. He lights up in those other interactions because he's having fun. The conversation is good, zesty, whatever. He enjoys the attention. You just have to figure out how to enjoy being around him for real, so that the laughter and sparkle are spontaneous. There is no study manual for "how to be charming to your husband" here. [/quote]

Yes zesty is the word. He has pretty zesty conversations with other women.

We do need to work on that. [/quote]
See, this is the bigger issue. You don’t turn him on the same way, for whatever reason. Maybe have a conversation or get couples counseling to figure out why. He’s capable, he’s just can’t be bothered to put in the effort for his own wife. Simply prancing in lingerie is unlikely to solve this. [/quote]

Can’t be bothered to put in the effort for his own wife seems to miss the mark.

22 years is a long time. Boredom is natural. Fighting boredom is hard.[/quote]
Easier to chase after shiny new playthings.[/quote]

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