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[quote=Anonymous]No brainer for me. I would not attend. I'd let my husband decide what he wants to do and not guilt him if it's the wedding. I also would phrase it less about the birthday and more about spending time with kids already flying in and not able to see them because of a posting abroad. I don't respond well to guilt trips though. It sounds very much like another sibling's schedule was accommodated and your dh is expected to drop everything and be there. If it's that important to brother, he would plan ahead. Not sure how so many people are able to do a trip to Australia with a month's notice, but we would not. Work schedules would never allow it. How many siblings are there? DH's brother is being a giant jerk about this. If they choose to have life long resentments over this, that's a them problem. FIL (who isn't even going) doesn't get an opinion. [/quote]
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