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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can ask anything you feel concerned about, just to be polite and let the host know you and your child’s nervous and no offense. I didn’t let mine do sleep over and glad I made the right decision, since I later heard the host invited a lot of friends/relatives and they all stayed, filled each room floor. It’s just too concerning if you don’t know anything in advance.[/quote]

Absolutely NO: adult or teen males, and no guns (real or toy ones). [/quote]

Wait, so do you expect the dads to leave when your kids are over? My kids have friends whose dads are super involved, as is my husband. They will often take the kids to activities and make them breakfast. I can't fathom telling the mom sorry, I need your husband to go stay in a hotel tonight while my kids spend the night. [/quote]

I don’t think this is a big ask.  The dad / adult boy(s) can just stay at a  nearby relative or friends house for one night.

Why not? [/quote]

Dad here.  If my wife or her friend suggested I should leave my own house for a sleepover, I'd laugh in both their faces.  And if I asked my friend of I could crash at his house, he's probably wonder if I was some sort of pedo. [/quote]

I understand the sentiment but laughing menacingly when someone asks you about being a pedo probably ain’t the flex you think it is. [/quote]

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