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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Listen to your lawyers and get a therapist. Divorce actually is not the venue for you to get any emotional satisfaction from your relationship including revenge or compensation. You get what the law provides no more no less. [/quote]

Best advice I’ve ever seen on DCUM.[/quote]

I agree.  Divorce lawyers aren’t good therapists, but a lot of them will listen to you talk and charge you as much per hour as a top notch private pay therapist.

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Are you kidding? Much more than a therapist! [/quote]

No, because you're not going to get more out of your divorce by explaining ad nauseam and listening to them validate you, for $500/hr, than if you just gave them the bald facts and paid them 10 times less. [/quote]

Yeah but PP's point was that you can get danged good therapy for about $225/hr (sometimes much less!), but a decent lawyer is, as you mentioned, about $500/hr.

So I can see my therapist 2 hours and really work through stuff, or see a lawyer 1 hour and...once they have the facts of the case there's not much else they can do for me.[/quote]

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